And he potentially loves me too. If your boyfriend acts distant, ignores you, doesn’t communicate, and avoids you while accusing you of doing these exact things, he is signaling you that he wants out. My ex broke up with me 2 months ago because he wasnt ready for a relationship. so it hurt to see and read what he said but I kept my distance and never responded hence he cut me off. The issue isn’t loving him too much, it’s about why you don’t love yourself enough. even tho i don't share much things about me still he tells me everything . By. I pay less attention to myself. MORE: Does He Care About Me? You love your boyfriend, but yet you don't want nothing serious? Neither was I (been divorced for 18 mos) so we’ve casually been dating. I deserve so much better!! People will tell you right out, but you have to listen and believe them. He would treat me like a princess. We all hear things that we don’t want to from time to time. But the message you hear is the BS reason. damage is done. I know he doe too: After 2 months I just didn’t see that he has closed his cycle in order to start a new story with me and I let him go. This site has been very helpful to me. few hours later he respond and he said yes he would like to meet and he understand the way i feel. The guy really likes me, and he is a gentleman, but somehow I see he is not over the relationship (ten years 1 shared kid and three of her own) I see he is devastated but he is so sweet I thought I’d give it a try. he told me that if i ever leave that he will quit too. I’ve been living with my so called boyfriend for 2yrs and he constanly telling me how much he loves me and never show anything that has to do with love now when it’s said to me I never respond back to him,because I giving up on love with him,that word love is nothing to play with if … He recently told me he doesn’t want to see me anymore because he loves me so much but I never get to spend time with him. Seems like a case of anxiety. I tried to reason with him at first. Hi Eric, Help--I keep being tempted to say it to him, but I want to hear it! I confronted him on something minor that was bothering me and he bailed. And he is shocked I haven’t tried to sink my claws in him (tie him down). Perhaps he's not at all, but he's with you because he's young, inexperienced, and figures you two can teach each other a lot? Why is it so hard for me to accept that my boyfriend loves me? Love comes across in actions. What’s going on? What do I do?? I feel like I'm tied down to him but I don't want this serious of a relationship in high school. He touched my leg, opened doors for me and when I dropped him off, he kissed me. © A New Mode, Inc. 2009-2020 All rights reserved. Maybe he's really in love with you. It is easy fo me to met men, but somehow it is difficult to have something it lasts. I was dating around but as soon as I found someone who said they was serious, I stopped dating and was loyal to him when I didn’t have to be and now he pulls this garbage. For instance every morning he texts me good morning and we always have to say goodnight. Should I just forget him? The reason women get into these infuriatingly confusing situations is because they fixate on the reason the guy gives for not being able to be in a relationship. Because one of my past boyfriends said that he would never date anyone else after I broke up with him but he got a new girlfriend a month later. Look, I understand some women would kill to be in this position. I’m still in love worth him and want to see what happens but I’m afraid to get hurt again. I've been her 1st, she still loves me deep inside, we're still in contact through fb and she keeps giving some signs of a possible reunion, but she already loves HIM as well :))) how can I get her back? I care for him a lot and I really like him.. 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